In this episode of Love Down Under, Alex and Metchie, a same-sex couple, and their children Alexa and Jacob share their inspiring journey with SBS Filipino. Their story is a testament of hope, particularly for the LGBTIQ+ community about the possibility of creating a family and a fulfilling life in Australia.
"We are here to inspire others, especially the LGBT community. Just be brave, and with God's guidance, everything will come to pass. If you want to have a family and a good life here in Australia, it's possible."
Love knows no boundaries
Chemical engineer Alex Sioson and former hospital supervisor Metchie Cano, both former OFWs, crossed paths in Abu Dhabi through a social dating app. Their relationship which was forbidden in Abu Dhabi made them decide to try moving to Australia.
" It was a struggle to come out for us there considering the country's Muslim faith. But Australia is very diverse and very accepting and we know deep inside that Australia is really for us," shares Alex.
The early stages of their relationship encountered challenges when Metchie disclosed his status as a parent with two children from a previous relationship. Despite these hurdles, their commitment to each other allowed them to embrace the complexities of their blended family, becoming a source of inspiration for one another and establishing a unique and resilient partnership.
"I said I have 2 kids from my previous relationship and she had a hard time accepting it at first but later on embraced it," shares Metchie.
Alex's successful application for a skilled visa (PR 189) for Australia acknowledged the children in their de facto relationship. In 2019, after settling into their new jobs, the couple decided it was time to unite their family in Australia and just recently, their family was granted Australian citizenship.
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Navigating life in Australia as a rainbow family
SBS Filipino
23/11/202333:10
Raising a family in Australia
Raising a family in Australia brought its own set of challenges, encompassing school adjustments, instances of bullying, finding a home, employment, and adapting to cultural differences. However, through open communication, shared responsibilities, and the creation of a multilingual household, they fostered an environment where their children could thrive.
"I used to teach in the Philippines as a tutor. I teach them with their assignments, and we practice English communication at home. We maintain Tagalog, Kapampangan, and English for multilingualism so that they can speak confidently in English and their mother tongue," Alex shares.
Alex shares that their unique family setup didn't require an explanation, as their perceptive and understanding children grasped the nuances naturally. Their goal is to instill values of compassion and gratitude, aiming to build a foundation that transcends cultural and societal norms.
"You don't have to explain everything precisely, they understand and they are open-minded."
Australia's commitment to a "fair go" deeply resonated with them, appreciating the equal opportunities provided irrespective of gender or race. As the family collectively attained Australian citizenship, they celebrated their triumphs while remaining connected to their Filipino roots and embracing their newfound home.
'Love Down Under' is a podcast series on SBS Filipino that explores love, relationships, and family stories."
