KEY POINTS
- The conversation about sex in Filipino families is often a sensitive and awkward subject. In many households, it’s common for parents to avoid discussing topics related to sex altogether. However, experts agree that it’s essential to have an ongoing, open conversation with your child about these matters. According to Donovan Nufable, a family advocate, these talks should begin early and continue as children grow into adulthood. The key is consistency keeping the lines of communication open so that when your child is ready to talk, they will feel comfortable coming to you with their questions.
- According to Mr. Nufable, parents may feel inclined to offer unsolicited advice or pass judgment when their children open about their relationships. In some cases, parents may even try to control or intervene in their child’s romantic choices. The key is to find a balance between being involved and giving your child the space to navigate their own relationships.
- Mr. Nufable says the key takeaway for parents is simple: guide, do not control. Encourage open conversations, provide advice, and allow their children to make their own choices, knowing that you will always be there to support them when they need it.
These talks should begin early and continue as children grow into adulthood. The key is consistency keeping the lines of communication open so that when your child is ready to talk, they will feel comfortable coming to you with their questions.Donovan Nufable (Family Dispute Resolution Mediator)
'Usapang Parental' is SBS Filipino's segment on parenting. It features the stories of migrant families, parenting issues, raising kids, and parenting tips and advice from experts.
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